In one moment, everything can change.
Sometimes it’s good. Sometimes it’s bad.
What do we say to someone who lost a brother, daughter, sister, husband, girlfriend … in the movie theater massacre?
What do we say to the man who lost his wife, mother, and two teenage daughters in a car accident a few days ago?
People offer condolences those first days. Everyone is gripped with the soberness of sudden death. Our lives suddenly stop. It could have happened to me we think.
But then, there are the weeks and months following when very few, if any, seem to remember your loss.
The pain doesn’t end after the funeral.
If you know someone who has lost a friend or family member, remember them. Don’t think that someone else is doing it. They’re not.
If you are the one who is lonely in your grief, you are not alone. Even if you don’t believe or are not sure about God … he’s sure about you … and he’s with you.