We’ve all been a victim of pain. But we have a choice – whether we will remain a victim or not.
Staying a victim leads to self-pity. You can lick your wounds for years and never get off square one. Why bring further suffering upon yourself? Everyone else is moving on and enjoying life. And you .. are in misery.
There is a time for being the victim.
Then there is a time for moving on.
Life is hard for all of us. Don’t dwell only on the bad stuff.
If you find yourself with a victim mentality, write down one thing every day that you are thankful for. You will be surprised to see how your thinking will change!